ENM Therapy
Therapy that honors your relationships, your identity, and your journey.
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When love is strong but communication feels hard, support can make all the difference.
Non-monogamous relationships grow, shift, and change—and sometimes that change feels overwhelming. Maybe you’re navigating new boundaries, dealing with jealousy, managing time between partners, or trying to communicate needs more clearly. Maybe one of you is exploring a new relationship, or you’re not quite sure how to process unexpected feelings as your dynamic evolves. Something’s shifted, even if you can’t name exactly what. That doesn’t mean your relationships are broken—it just means they need space, attention, and care. Therapy can be a grounding place to unpack what’s coming up, hold space for everyone’s truth, and work through challenges without shame. Together, we’ll explore the parts that feel the heaviest, like:
Communication that gets tangled between multiple partners
Mismatched expectations around intimacy, time, or emotional needs
Navigating jealousy, comparison, or insecurity within your dynamic
Processing shifting identities, including gender and queerness
Managing stigma or feeling misunderstood by friends and family
Whatever’s on your mind, big or small, you belong here.
Welcome to a Space Held Just for You
Whatever’s on your mind—big or small—it belongs here. This is a space where you can speak freely, without worrying about saying the “right” thing. At Modern Insight, we’ll dig into the tough stuff, sit with the uncomfortable moments, and move toward growth at a pace that feels right for you.
Make meaningful changes that align with your values and create the life you truly want
Build resilience to face life’s challenges with confidence and strength
Learn effective tools to manage stress, anxiety, and overwhelming emotions
Give yourself GRACE and recognize the unique strengths you bring to the world
Frequently Asked Questions
What does ENM stand for?
ENM stands for Ethical Non-Monogamy, a term that describes relationship structures where all parties consent to having multiple romantic or sexual connections. At Modern Insight Therapy, we recognize that ENM looks different for every individual or partnership, and we’re here to help you define and support the version that aligns with your values and needs.
What is ENM therapy?
ENM therapy (Ethical Non-Monogamy therapy) supports individuals and partners navigating consensual non-monogamous relationships. At Modern Insight Therapy, ENM therapy creates a judgment-free space to explore boundaries, strengthen communication, address jealousy or insecurity, and manage complex relational dynamics with care and intention. If you’re seeking a therapist who understands the nuances of ENM and polyamory, Pedro Segura-Moore offers affirming support grounded in lived experience and cultural humility.
Are ENM relationships healthy?
Yes—ENM relationships can be just as healthy, stable, and fulfilling as monogamous ones, especially when built on mutual respect, honest communication, and clear boundaries. At Modern Insight Therapy, we work with clients to strengthen their relationship foundations, process difficult emotions, and create systems of trust that support everyone involved.
Is ENM different than poly?
Yes—ENM is an umbrella term that includes a range of relationship styles, such as polyamory, open relationships, swinging, and relationship anarchy. Polyamory specifically refers to having multiple loving, often long-term, romantic relationships at the same time. At Modern Insight Therapy, our clinicians—including Pedro Segura-Moore—are experienced in supporting clients across the full spectrum of ENM identities and practices.
Work with Pedro Segura-Moore, MA, ALMFT
Pedro J.C. Segura-Moore, MA, ALMFT is a therapist passionate about the intersection of sexuality, gender, culture, relationships, and systems. He provides an affirming and inclusive space for clients with diverse and marginalized identities, blending empathy and humor to foster comfort and openness. Pedro specializes in working with couples, trauma, relationships, sex therapy, and LGBTQ+ clients, and is kink-, BDSM-, and ethical non-monogamy–friendly.
Drawing from narrative and collaborative approaches, Pedro views therapy as a shared exploration of clients’ stories—challenging self-talk, addressing past experiences, and promoting growth through connection. His goal is to help clients enhance the quality of their lives and relationships through compassion, insight, and collaboration. Pedro holds a Master’s degree in Couple and Family Therapy, a certificate in Clinical Sexology, and is pursuing a PhD in Human Sexuality Critical Sexuality Studies.
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